He may be doing something on Sunday mornings besides going to church with his brother.
I am wondering if such a relationship is acceptable with today’s mores and the circumstances. It would only hurt her feelings and strain our relationship. — FOLLOW UP ON THE HINTDEAR FOLLOW UP: I would not advise pursuing the "hint" — which appears to me to be more of a full frontal assault — without thinking very carefully.The problem with adulterous relationships is that more often than not, the spouse catches on.If you think that by not talking this out with your wife you will be sparing her feelings, you are wrong.I tell my husband what I do each day, but of course, there is no feedback. Both of us are Protestants, so I don’t think my denomination was an issue. How would you feel if you were in his position, unable to walk or talk, and he said that to you?