Try them on, check the fit, and make sure you FEEL GREAT in the clothes.It’s not whether you’re wearing shorts, jeans, or a skirt; you need to feel great because it will make you feel more confident.
Meet Gay, Lesbian, Bisexual and Transgender people in your area.
Tell me it’s done and over and you identify as single and ready. Make a decision to get out, or get in there and work on making it better.
If you’re single and looking, don’t go and get your heart attached to someone who isn’t sure if she’s done, who’s just checking out the single scene to decide if she’s done for sure, or who can’t hurt her current girlfriend just yet but promises she’ll break up with her next week. Wait to find someone who is really single, or if it’s you, be really single. It’s easy to rush — rush into dating, rush into sex, rush into commitment.
You’ve got to get a plan together to get the hell out of the house and be seen. Get online and google the lesbian scene in your city or the nearest big city to you. Women need to know you’re free, ready, and available, and part of that is being seen at events.
That can involve joining meetup groups and then actually attending them. Things will pop up, from the local LGBT bar and Pride events, to LGBT community centers and meetup groups. If you need to, bring friends to push you past your shyness and be your Wing’Maam. She’ll tell you things like she’s a nut about being on time or that she never keeps her commitments and always runs late because she overbooks.