For the sake of keeping an already long article as short as it can be, I will I think that quote is a little extreme, but it illustrates an interesting point. It implies that you have a desperate need to have it, like it’s the only possible nourishment for your starving heart. MORE: Why The Guys You Want Don’t Want You I’m going to tell you something shocking. yes, I’m telling you to start opening yourself up to other men. Really put some energy into meeting new men and talking with new guys… Here are a few other pointers on the “art of seduction”: doesn’t go for you, then it simply is not meant to be.
It actually goes back to what I was saying in the last section – you will not be able to attract a relationship if you’re looking for it to fill an emotional void for you. you don’t have to date them or sleep with them or marry them. Doing this process I described is more like a 1 to 3 month endeavor. But you’ll know when you’ve completed all the steps and once you hit that point, it’s time to make or break this thing. Hate to disappoint, but if you’ve played it this far and he’s still not going for you then that’s that. It might sound bittersweet, but by following the steps you: So if you have to take a consolation prize, this ain’t a bad one.
There are some great guys out there that have had their heart broken one to many times.
And by the time they’re in your life, they have a lot of unclaimed baggage that they have yet to resolve.
It’s an: “It’s not you, it’s me” situation, except it comes before any relationship has even happened.
Problem is, your feelings for him and what your relationship are just an illusion.
He’ll stop feeling like he can trust you and he’ll start feeling like he’s a target for your own personal conquest.I’m talking about moving on mentally and letting it go. And be honest with him and yourself when you make the decision that you’re happy just being friends (people can tell when you’re faking it). Accept it and enjoy your guy friend as a guy friend.It can actually be one of the greatest lessons to learn to truly let a crush go and accept just being friends. And it also gives the other person the psychological “space” to possibly grow feelings for you at some point down the line. When I finally spilled my guts about my feelings for her, she said she just didn’t have “those kind of feelings” for me. MORE: How to Get Over a Guy That Doesn’t Like You It might be tough, but if you add gravity to the situation or romanticize it or dramatize it, it will be 100 times tougher.Just talk with them and get some guys interested in you. Who knows, you might even end up meeting a better guy in the process. cause it won’t work if you only did the parts you wanted to do and ignored the rest. But assuming that you: 1) Really, truly accepted being just friends 2) Maximized your look so that you’re now a smoking hot mama 3) Racked up a whole bunch of potential guys who are interested in you It’s time to pull the trigger.