These guys and their data teams ran queries of all kinds and pulled spreadsheet after spreadsheet of information to try and answer our strange questions.
We also needed Ok Cupid to get permission from their users to enable us to publish those popular profile pics.
The sex just doesn’t seem to be doing it for me anymore.
Enroll in a yoga class and learn to surf—they’re the most popular activities for men and women alike, so either desirable singles are super mellow or it’s aspirational, and everyone to be mellow.
Mentioning cats is fine, but mention “my cats” and you’re a weirdo.
The data shows that lesbians appreciate nice legs, gay men prize nice arms, and straight women and men are looking for flat stomachs above all else.
Well, the problem is that I’m not really the casual sex, F-Buddy, hookup-type of guy. I’m not some horny teenaged guy who only thinks about sex. There’s a lot of other things I want from a woman besides just sex.
For almost a year now, I’ve tried to play the FWB roll, but now I’m about played out.