Do you remember the girl that made you feel the way that no one else could? All night…Imagine being with this woman, getting along just perfect, deeply in love, and having great connection every day.
This is a weak mentality of worrying about what others think. No matter how wide, how tall, or how scary, you must try to ride them all in all environments.
She left you an emotional voice mail when you forgot to respond to her text one time…This girl is crazy right? It is desperate, and makes the girl think: Something must be wrong with him she’ll think. But NEVER should he want her so much that he’ll start putting her on a pedestal and start valuing her over himself and his own life.
The guys that care too much lowers his own value and doesn’t create sentiments of allure because guys that care too much are telling women– through concern, through availability, through his being there too much- that he is in fact, not special or unique at all. He is more available than hydrogen, more common than dirt, and freer to talk to than the operator at Home Depot – but a smooth operator he is not.. She’ll run faster than Usain Bolt in the Olympics and any person who has respect for himself would do the same.
You think you can’t create that same connection with another girl, so you settle for less than you deserve without even realizing it YOU NEED TO . There is more than one girl that you can have this feeling with. And you can date these women when you take women off the pedestal you hand crafted out of gold for her. It doesn’t serve you and women don’t like it Check this out: Let’s say you meet a chill guy as a friend and then after only a few days he started buying you a bunch of stuff and paying for all your food and drinks. It allows women to recline into the comfort you lavish them with, put their foot in your mouth that gives too many fake compliments, buys too many gifts, always being available and lets her walk all over you.
Then texts to make sure you got home ok, and “likes” all your facebook posts. Too early man it’s over before it started…You minus well lay on the floor and tell her to walk all over you! Women will only respect you for how much you respect yourself.