potential attraction, no matter how awesome you may be otherwise. The more you let your height (or lack thereof) bother you, the less attractive you get.
They’re the ones who stand out in people’s memories, who can command attention (and affection) with seeming ease.
Seem like a tall order One of the worst things that guys can do to themselves is to get defensive about being short.
Look, I get it: you’ve been getting Oompa Loompa jokes since forever.
The thing is, as with many other masculine insecurities, this is predominantly in our heads. Worse, I’m the shortest of all my friends who range from 5’1o” on the short side, to 6’7″ on the tall side.
But my height has only been as much of a problem as I’d let it be.