So also be ready to answer back your question if they ask you.
There’s nothing wrong with planning ahead, especially when it comes to making a great first impression.
When you are sending out a first message on an online dating site, what are proven, tried and tested first messages? I don't think there's going to be any one magic universal opener that will blow the doors off any and every girl. Many examples of guys putting lines up on here and within days being called out for it because every third message she receives is your own opener.. Within those categories, I've observed some patterns for success.
Anytime a girl has an obvious travel photo, it's an easy opener: "looks like you've done some traveling, where are you going next" "what places are on your 2014 travel bucket list" If you recognize the city (NYC can be super obvious) "I was just in NYC, had a blast, how did you like it" etc. I word it like this: "hmmm, you kinda look like you could be trouble" or if she looks super slutty I'll be more direct: "yup, you're definitely trouble" There's no script that will get amazing results from every type of girl for every man. The message that you write for a party skank is different from an artsy girl is different from a corporate drone, etc.
We give you a list of some of our tried and true online dating conversation starters, but you can use them in any order, or only ask one.
The great thing about a conversation starter is that it .
The question should come to you easily and naturally, so don’t ask your questions like you’re following a script.
That will be awkward and not elicit the response you want.