(Perhaps this is just me - but I find it difficult to juggle any more that 4-5 guys at a time in terms of messaging, getting to know each other, potentially setting up dates etc.It then becomes an exercise in scheduling and endurance and takes all the fun out of it, IMO.)(4) I am simply not interested and my non-response is indeed a polite “no.”So you see, there are many reasons why a girl might not respond to your first message and only one of them is true non-interest.A friend asked me what I thought was a strange question. First, you must realize most of your messages are not going to be answered.He wanted to know if he could send a second message to a woman online if she didn’t respond to his first. If one out of 10 messages gets an answer, you are doing OK.I guess it should be noted that the others kind of hinge on lack of intense interest too.That being said, I have in the past responded to a second message and in fact, just this past weekend, went out with someone who had first written me almost 2 months ago._________________________________________________________And now for some male perspective: You know, as I was thinking about writing this contribution, a funny thing happened - I received a second message from a woman.
(Worthwhile is the key word there.) There are plenty of reasons why I do not answer first messages:(1) I’m like, really busy and important and sometimes I check messages on the app on my phone and forget to respond later.
Plentyoffish dating forums are a place to meet singles and get dating advice or share dating experiences etc.
Hopefully you will all have fun meeting singles and try out this online dating thing...
Just give 10 reasons, starting from number 10 and counting down to number one, with each reason getting funnier or sillier than the previous one.
Even if she finds just a couple of reasons funny, there is a good chance she’ll respond.