If this is your first visit to this site I recommend reading my Virgo and Taurus compatibility article on this relationship first.
I also have a Virgo man guide and Taurus woman guide which contain a lot of questions and answers related to this relationship.
What's really amazing is how our partners respect for this thing between us and how we respect each other's partners' roles in our lives.
When I developed the self-esteem to see myself as a worthwhile human being, I was able to stop ignoring the obvious fact that this isn't a case of unrequited infatuation.
The on off relationship went on for at least 13 years, dropping in and out of each others lives.
Every time he hurt me, it would pass, then after a while we would link up again. We met for a date in the park by the lake and instantly hit of off.
The Virgo and I remained friends for a couple years, and then one day, while we were working on a project together, he abruptly asked me to leave, to go home. When we moved on to words, there was some initial arguing (over a period of about six months), but we eventually renewed our friendship.
He said that he regretted how he had behaved toward me in the past.