You don't expect someone who is so much older to have so much in common with you or the desire to connect with you the way some older women do. And with 15 years more experience, they're more interesting to talk to. Man A: Older women are more open to letting you try new things. My current girlfriend pursued me on social media and then we started dating. My last girlfriend and I would sit down and listen to all my favorite music, and it was a real bonding experience I'd never had before. Man B: I've never gotten anything more than a "huh."Man C: Sometimes people think I'm her son, but when that happens we just look at each other and laugh. " They'll also mention how it's been acceptable for older men to date much younger women and then question why it's not more socially acceptable for women to date younger guys.Popular TBS sitcom Cougar Town focused on the concept of older, divorcees dating younger men after ending their marriages, with former Friends actress Courtney Cox starring as a forty-something woman who enjoys a series of relationships with younger men following her break-up.In addition to showing the increasing number of young men who are on the look-out for older women, Elite Singles' research also indicated that the average 'ideal' age gap for most men over the age of 30 is also becoming smaller. If in any way you meet and you see that she’s got the plastic surgery going on, has lied about her age, then you know where you are at with her. They have nothing to lose by being and showing who they genuinely are. If you cannot say it in person then send a short email. We’ve had plenty experience of raising children, we don’t need to be a mommy to you. Know that many of us are quite experienced in relationships and we know how to treat a good man. We are used to having lots of space in a relationship. Hey men, if you are going to see a woman in another state for the first time, make sure you know what you are doing. Man C: Sexually, I was surprised by her openness to experiment and surprised that there was no stigma about oral sex.Previously, I had married a woman who did not like returning the favor, if you know what I mean. Some men are genuine guys who just like dating older woman.
Man C: Nothing is really different about sleeping with older women. In many cases, they've already had their families, so neither of us are dependent on the other. Man A: There wasn't anything I didn't like about it.I'm not looking for a mother figure or to be nurtured. Show interest in it, but you don't have to like her style of movies or music. If you want a serious relationship, make sure you don't act like a kid. And to the woman, do the same thing and hopefully you'll find a guy of your dreams. I'm thoroughly smitten by a woman who is 15 years older than me, and if I let my fears stop me from talking to her when she first reached out to me, I'd have made the biggest mistake of my life. People don't really judge you for dating older women as often as your fears might lead you to believe. Ladies, younger guys who think you're beautiful and want to treat you right are out there. Man C: I'd say the biggest misconception is the idea of an Oedipus complex. Man A: To men: don't try to enjoy what she enjoys if you don't.