This kind of attachment is not healthy and can lead to a lot of pain on both sides. But it's good to have these guidelines to make you aware of the possibilities that could arise in these relationships.
Earlier on Huff/Post50: After what may be decades of commitment and teamwork in a marriage, couples often reach a point when they stop viewing sex as a necessity in a relationship now built upon the strong tenets of trust, friendship and love.
In truth, with age does come experience and a certain sense of power. They are still enjoying the variations of different women.
She can feel comfortable in setting the rules and doesn't need to feel like she is not in control of the situation. If commitment is something you may be looking for, you might want to opt for an older man. Communication is still not at its optimum peak in a younger man.
By this time we had several flirty encounters and I was definitely attracted to him. Like I said, no one had touched me like that in many years. Being at work, there was no way to act on the feelings so nothing happened physically between us for a long time.
A few stolen kisses in secluded corners built up killer anticipation.
It was 3 weeks before we finally arranged to meet up alone in a place other than work. There is nothing like the time between the first glimpse of a crush and the first orgasmic date (whether real time or cyber).
They still have a thirst for life that hasn't been jaded yet. These men are not afraid to tap into their feminine side when it comes to grooming.Then this happened:“How old are you,” I asked.“52.”I laughed.“You are not.”“I was trying to pick the oldest age you might believe so you wouldn’t think I was too young,” he laughed back.“Ok,” he said, “I’m 44.”By this point this very younger man had been flirting with me for several weeks.Some younger guys are very needy and are looking to be "mothered" by an older woman. They aren't too concerned with financial stability and future security.Many times the man will have jealousy issues and are not trusting of the woman. Older women know how fast time goes by and how important having this security is -- especially as we age. When the spark of romance blossoms between two people sometimes age does not matter.