Contrary to popular belief and falsified bullshit put out there by women, talking dirty with your date is actually possible and a great sign of things to come! They won’t see a thing but hear you moaning silently”…This has to be done more subtly however since you’re in the presence of others [at a restaurant, etc.]. Flirting quite naturally has the potential to lead to dirty talking since flirting is the proverbial spring-board to getting you there. Ok guys, that was an actual excerpt from a sex chat I had with my GF via Blackberry messenger [BBM].“I prefer playing it safe” “I’m too shy to talk dirty” Your own mind will fuck you out of easy pussy! Start off with: “I’m in the mood to eat something sweet”! You’re planting seeds of sex, which is 100 times more powerful than being blatant…in this case.Tame your inner inhibition when it comes to talking dirty with women, and just let it all hang out but with tact and skills. For example, maybe your partner has a relatively high sex drive but their engine only gets revved up when they’re already thinking about sex. Again, this will all be based on what you authentically desire in the moment, but saying something along the lines of “I’m trying to get work done but I can’t stop thinking about last week when we were 69’ing and your delicious juices were flowing into my mouth” could be the thing that pushes them over the edge to jumping you.
[I’m inducing some sexual tension which will cause her to blush, flush and engage in the mutual flirting] Me: “Let me taste a piece of you”. Ok guys, that was just a template of how to get sexual over dinner. Me: “If I were at your job right now, I would so fucking crawl under that desk and go to town on your kitty cat”! At the end of the chat, the convo became more vivid as I told her how much I wanted to slide this cock down her throat until she begged for me to stop!That is how you introduce dirty talking while on a dinner date or any date for that matter. Generally, you can get away with murder when it comes to a girl you’ve already shagged. My crystal ball says that you’re thinking about sex on the beach right now. I’m popping a mean fucking boner just from having a casual chat with you”! It’d be pretty stupid to go up to a girl at the bar and say to her: “You have a nice ass and it’s getting my cock hard”. But for the average Joe reading this, an approach like that will totally crucify you and set off the creepy rape-alert inside the girl’s head.The key is to start small by insinuating and hinting at sex. A new girl (stranger) for that matter: the awkward factor heightens. Perhaps it’s the cocktail and not actually sex on a beach” ;)! As you become good at this [sexualization], you will then be able to get away with full-blown sex talk from the get-go with random strangers at nightlife settings.This is where the drunk guy goes wrong…although he has the right idea. Now, if this is a girl you’d already been on a date with and actually picked up in person, then it’s ok to get explicitly sexual over text and phone conversation.However, it’s still much safer to keep it light until you meet her again for the day 2, date or meetup, where you can actually bang this girl when it’s all said and done.