JG: First, you'd be about the first person who walked into my office and admitted to being selfish.Almost all selfish people think other people are selfish because they don't provide absolutely everything really big takers want.
So you've got to take a leap of faith, to speak your truth and negotiate.
Sometimes you might feel that your partner is using you just to fulfill his/her needs or lonely life.
This feeling comes when you trace some selfish attitude in your partner.
Self centered: Your boyfriend is always involved in his life, his views, thoughts and wishes.
You can feel this during a conversation when your man talks about himself.