The theory is based on polarity: when the human brain is exposed to a sequence of when talking to women – just think how much girls love drama! This sort of behavior keeps her on her toes and will drive her crazy (in a good way)!
In other words, don’t express that you are into her right away.
”(Sure, but I mean, who would want an ugly, broke jerk sticking faithfully by their side?
)Royzman said that among his students (not in a clinical condition), men tend to spend much more on physical attractiveness, and women spend more on social attractiveness traits like kindness and intelligence.
As one columnist who used the service put it, “There’s a short bio, age, and mutual friends listed, but who’s really paying attention to that stuff when your Tinder flame is wearing next to nothing on the beach?
And it works – think about how many women like soap operas! The goal here is to establish trust between the two of you.
That being said, many men have benefitted from the practice.
You can’t just walk up to a woman and start saying things to get her emotions going!
First, ask her to describe something that made her happy.
Next, ask her to tell you about something that made her sad or afraid. When a woman feels positive and negative emotions in quick succession combined with the aura you’re giving off, your tone of voice, and your body language, she’ll melt. If you’ve just started dating someone, act nonchalant one minute and very “into her” the next.