My family is totally against the relationship because of my friend's past life as a so called 'party girl.' I was told that she dated one of my family members, but I have not asked her about it because I am not sure if this is any of my business.
Are you looking for a hot local chick for a discreet sex date or are you more looking for a long term relationship?
Growing up in Northern Kentucky, I got used to being the only Black kid in most of my classes.
In high school, there were other Black students, but none of them in my close-knit drama and speech class circles. It might start with an innocent "did you get a haircut" right after you wash your hair and there is shrinkage--but it does not end... From moisturizing, to protecting with a satin cap, there is always a new and interesting thing for your guy to discover.
It could simply mean that she likes to enjoy life (and might even have a few more womanly tricks up her sleeve.) However, I do feel that the issue of her dating one of your family members should be addressed — if only to provide you with the knowledge to know how to navigate a potentially awkward encounter.
Meaning you wouldn’t want to be at the family reunion with her in tow and unknowingly run into the family member she was involved with.