Though it might not have seemed important early on, they may decide one day they actually do want to have a family.
A man who awakens to this awareness realizes his chances for posterity can be greater with a younger woman who is still able to have his biological children.
They usually are the type that have a strong lust of money or maybe they need a daddy figure, but most of the 30 somethings I talk to, are completely creeped out at the prospect of dating a guy who was alive when JFK was alive.
Okay, older men – write to me and tell me why I’m wrong.
Is this just a case of an older man looking for a younger woman to have sex with, or are there other plausible reasons an older man might be pursuing a younger woman?
Here’s what I think: Many men are very focused on getting their education, establishing their careers, and obtaining financial security well into midlife and beyond.
I take really good care of myself and from my perspective, even subtracting for age, I think I would be fairly appealing on various levels to a younger woman.Put another way, if a woman in her 30’s has an array of other quality options closer to her age range, what incentives would she have to date a man who is 10 or more YEARS OLDER? My much young x-girlfriend told me she likes older men because we embody wisdom and stability. What you’re failing to recognize is that what most successful quality younger women really want for the long haul… A partner or maybe a youthful father for her unborn children to help her raise them. Single middle-aged men and women clients will tell me…And hey, I don’t blame them.We can afford nicer restaurants and vacations and have cultivated greater tastes in the arts. But you must understand that any woman you desire in that age group has choices. The guy who’s 45- 55 is not on the top of her list. However, as long as they close their minds to not dating people who are age-appropriate, they’re really going to struggle and fail miserably.We older folks may always argue why its best to pick the older mate because “Time creates wisdom” This is true…but it also creates responsibilities and complications – Divorce scars, mortgage, kids, career, etc. And nobody has more choices than a 30-year-old woman.