The relationship at the moment is either working for you or it’s not.
I think there are a few traps in this sort of situation.
Another trap is being in a relationship that you ARE totally happy in, then letting your friend’s “advice” get into your head. One woman who is pretty much happy in her relationship goes out with her girlfriends.
If a store was giving you free stuff, would you say ‘no please, let me pay you for it’? Now, with that said, that does not necessarily mean that there’s no chance of you becoming his girlfriend.One is staying in a relationship you are not happy in and haven’t been happy in for a while, but you’re staying in it because of the “potential of what it could be.” Frankly, if you don’t like it the way it is, it probably will not change unless he is motivated to change it.If it has not been working for you for a while, then your best bet is probably to lay your cards out on the table: “This is the change I need or I need to leave.” You will either get it or your relationship will end – either way, you’re off the fence instead of settling for an unhappy situation.Well, the most important advice I can give is to have a high sense of self worth- know what you want and know that you CAN get what you want and never have to settle for anything less.Now this isn’t something that you need to say, it should just come across in how you act.