By Gina Aimey-Moss The use of mind games is manipulative, immature and counter-productive yet both men and women have been guilty of playing them at one point or another.The sad thing is that both sexes like to point fingers at each other for their folly without acknowledging that neither is innocent.Your willingness to lovingly, but firmly, confront someone on what they have clearly been doing may help them to stop a game they may not even know their playing.But just remember this: don’t simply listen to what they say, watch what they do.It can get in the way of a deep meaningful relationship.Dawn asked: Why do guys bother with the mind games? There could be a number of reasons why guys or girls play mind games, and sometimes they don’t even know they are playing games because they are so unaware of their own needs, much less yours. It is the way they go about getting those needs met that can be selfish and hurtful. It’s very important for the person who’s playing mind games with you to know that you know the game is being played. Read about how to “have a meaningful relationship here.
This, of course, is despicable.situations tend to be more complex than that.
So why do men play games with women’s heads, even the ones they love?
This could be for any amount of reasons and can vary among individuals.
If it’s exclusive and you catch him with another woman, kick his butt to the curb.
If he tells you he doesn’t know what he wants, you should decide if you want to stay with someone who’s being fickle or you could make a mental note that this is still a casual relationship and wait it out.